How to tell your ex that he wants you back! Definitive signs that your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend hasn’t gotten over you
Do you want to know if your ex wants you back … why? Doesn’t mean ex in the past, it’s over, we’re done, I don’t love you anymore, or bye, I’m moving on. When a relationship has run its course, you have to learn to let it go, but saying that if there is a ray of hope it can work and it is what you both want, go for it. However, before you get back together, take some time to think about why you broke up in the first place. Was infidelity (unfaithful spouse / partner) the cause? It’s hard to get over something like this and for some the past will come back to haunt them and the misery will remain in the relationship. There is no guarantee that the path ahead will be perfect if your partner cheated on you while you were together. Not everyone can forgive and forget.
How to know if your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend wants you back. If your ex is trying hard to get it and doesn’t show that he wants you back, make no mistake and make fun of yourself trying to find out. If this person loves you, the signs will show. Whatever you do, don’t misunderstand these signs because you will never forget them.
Signs your ex wants you back
Usually couples who break up go ahead and go their own way. However, if your ex remains genuinely interested in you, he still cares.
Non-verbal communication: It’s definitely a sign when your ex can’t take their eyes off you, but the question is, is it a good sign or a bad sign? Bad sign: They stare because they think they had a lucky escape. Good sign: They watch, realizing how close they have come to losing you forever. If your every move is constantly monitored by your ex and with a smile, take this as a positive rather than a negative. Maintain eye contact as it increases the chances of getting closer. If there is distance between you, say in a nightclub and they slowly approach you, allow them time by your side, as this is likely to be the time when they will regret it.
Circling: The law of average when two people separate, they will meet at some point. But when that at some point becomes all the time, and in the places where you least expect to see your ex, then it is a sign that they are not giving up on getting back with you. Don’t accuse your ex of being a stalker just because he shows up wherever you are. What this means is that they want to be around and protect you, but will admit it if confronted. Some repress their feelings and no one notices. Now that your ex has been shown to still care about their stalking antics, YOU need to come in and get them to open up. Why let the relationship suffer as a result of your stubbornness when your future happiness may depend on it?
Date: If your ex asks to meet for coffee and a chat, give him the benefit of the doubt and agree to the meeting. They obviously want to talk, but what? Don’t be scared that it is something bad they have to say. What other reason when it’s over between the two of you could your ex have for wanting to talk, other than wanting to reconcile? If it’s a spouse affair, then panic. Divorce can be an unpleasant affair with ongoing pernicious conversations and discussions about who gets what when the house is sold. Marriage dilemmas as such will not apply to you, of course, because you are single, well for the moment anyway. Your marital status will depend on the outcome of the meeting. If your ex offers to buy you coffee, it is a sign that they are not with you.
Sorry: If the separation was due to a small argument in which things were said in the heat of the moment, do not dig your heels into the ground when they come to ask for forgiveness. It takes two to tango. Maybe you said things that you regret, so if you have to admit you were wrong, admit it. An apology is a sign that your ex wants you back. If it weren’t for why else would they come to suck.
Other signs: If your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend talks about you with friends and family asking about your well-being and wanting to know what you are doing with your life since you broke up, don’t see it as nosy, but rather as a sign that I can’t let you go