Science of seduction – The three laws of attraction that every man should know
“Attraction is not a choice.”
-David DeAngelo
Interesting quote, but what does this mean for us? In shorts, women are conditioned being attracted to certain cues, traits, and physical characteristics. It’s not that they CHOOSE to be attracted to bad boys, athletes, or wealthy businessmen. Rather, they have been conditioned by evolution to be attracted to these types of men, because they execute the correct actions and behaviors that send signals of attraction in women’s brains. Speaking of having chemistry between people!
The good news is that you don’t have to be rich, athletic, or a bad boy to successfully attract women. You just have to ACT like them. You just have to know what behaviors, attitudes and actions you have that WORK to impress and seduce women.
There are 10 laws of attraction that every man should know, but since I have limited space, I’m only going to detail the first three here. For the remaining seven, check out my “How To Be Irresistible To Women” course. Find the details at the end of this article.
Now to the 3 laws of attraction!
First Law of Attraction: Demonstrate High Social Status
There are lots of great ways to do this, including peacock, which is a popular term for dressing up in quirky outfits and hairstyles; be energetic; and using your popularity, the principle of social proof. When women see you socializing with bartenders, managers, and club/bar owners, it shows that you are popular and desirable.
Second rule of attraction: make impressions
A great way to attract a woman is to make a memorable impression. No matter how good you look, how tall you are, how rich you are, all you have to do is leave a good memory of who you are. Make a woman remember you. You can do this in a number of ways, including:
Ask how he is, with confidence.
A simple, “Hey, what’s up?” in a relaxed tone goes a long way in making a girl remember you. This is especially effective with retail store clerks and waitresses. Don’t act too interested in what she has to say, just say it in a slow, cool, DEEP tone of voice that sends her emotional chemicals. buzz!
Making fun of her.
Show your self-confidence by joking about a girl’s hair or occupation. You can say, “Wow, you put a lot of effort into that hairstyle, huh?” or if she says she’s a model or a dancer, say, “Hey, just a model, huh? Well, that’s good.” Acting unimpressed will ironically impress her. Girls are used to being fawned over by guys, so doing the opposite of what she expects will greatly benefit you.
Joking about other guys.
This is a great technique where you can use other guys’ pickup failures to your advantage. If a guy says something really cheesy or stupid, just say, “Man, you gotta get that all the time.” Or just walk up to her and say, “See that guy over there? He has the WORST BO in the world!”
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Third rule of attraction: be funny in an attractive and arrogant way
As you can see from the methods above, humor is a great way to attract women. Women seem to like to laugh, and when you think about it, you can’t really blame them: Who wants to be with a boring guy? Especially if they’re thinking of settling down with a guy in a relationship, they want a guy who can keep things interesting, funny, and not too serious. Humor does just that. Some great ways to make a girl laugh include:
self-loathing
This is where karaoke is great: you can make fun of yourself and be a clown. Show that you are comfortable with yourself, fun and not too serious.
Ingenuity
As long as you don’t use it too much against him, wit can be a great thing. Shows intelligence and humor.
observational humor
Looking at funny things like a clumsy waiter or a guy whose face looks like his dog’s is a great way to make a girl laugh.
exaggeration
Telling a great story and showing how ridiculous something was is a sure way to make an impression. Having lots of stories ready to tell a girl is a great way to impress and attract her.
cocky Comedy,
This amazing technique, popularized by David DeAngelo, is an amazing way to show high social status and make her laugh. Generally, you want to break his balls and BREAK HIS STATE. Take her out of her element of her, joke around with her in front of her group. Show her that you don’t need her, and above all that you I don’t need it for self-validation. Very powerful stuff.
There are all sorts of additional ways to attract women, and honestly, not enough can be written on the subject. But this should give you a start to your understanding of what women want. To discover more, check out my ebook on how to attract women. It’s YOUR turn to start an exciting new lifestyle, so don’t miss out!